Who it’s for
Polyamory, open relationships, swinging, relationship anarchy, mono-poly arrangements—or anyone curious about CNM. For folks opening or closing a relationship and those renegotiating agreements over time.

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Common themes

• Agreements & repair; disclosure and boundaries

• Jealousy, compersion, and nervous-system safety

• Time/resource equity & calendar logistics

• Sexual-health plans across networks (testing, protocols, transparency)

• Attachment mismatches: New Relationship Energy vs. stability

• BDSM/D-s dynamics inside CNM structures and agreements

• Community care: becoming polysecure, chosen family, supportive networks

• Parenting while poly; discretion and age-appropriate boundaries

• Disclosing CNM to new partners and within community spaces

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Goals

• Clear, living structures (who/when/how) you can actually use

• Safer-sex systems and transparent information-sharing

• Conflict tools and rupture-repair that preserve dignity

• Aligning values with agreements; nurturing intimacy across configurations

• Relationships that are ethical, consensual, and empowering—not complacent